Love yourself, message from “The Secret”

Did you read the book The secret, written by Rhonda Byrne ? This book talks about « law of attraction » or « power of the universe » etc, concepts not quite familiar to us. Apparently, the book seems to deal with scientific subjects but actually not. It’s a personal development book about the importance of a positive attitude. I think it depends on people, but for me the book was quite bizarre, not natural. However the strange thing is that this book made me believe in it!

The book tells us that if you think positively, things will become as you think, but it’s also the same if you think negatively. It was not what I’d thought until the moment I read this book. Actually I used to think the opposite, because of various experiences I’ve had since my childhood.
As a child, I did many stupid things like others children. Every time I believed that it wasn’t so serious, I was scolded by my parents. However, if I was well prepared to be scolded, nothing serious happened.
For exams it was the same. When I expected a good result, the result was quite the opposite 🙂 .

Anyways while reading this internationnal best selling book, I found something important :

Everyone wants to have success in his or her life, within his family, career, love…
But we are not self-confident enough, we don’t love ourselves enough.
So someone else needs to convice us and tell us about this :
« Love yourself », « You deserve it », « You are IMPORTANT ».

That’s why this song is called Love yourself. I wanted to send you this message with my music. However, that does not mean the song is completely inspired from this book. Actually when I observe my musics, all of them somewhat include the message I want to give to myself at each moment.

Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you.(…)

Your actions are your powerful thoughts, so if you do not treat yourself with love and respect, you are emitting a signal that is saying you are not important enough, worthy enough, or deserving. That signal will continue to be broadcast, and you will experience more situations of people not treating you well. The people are just the effect. Your thoughts are the cause.

You must begin to treat yourself with love and respect, and emit that signal and get on that frequency. (…) and your life will be full of people who love and respect you.

Many people have sacrificed themselves for others, thinking when they sacrifice themselves they are being a good person. Wrong! To sacrifice yourself can only come from thoughts of absolute lack, because it is saying, “There is not enough for everyone, so I will go without” Those feelings do not feel good and will eventually lead to resentment. There is abundance for everybody and it is each person’s responsibility to summon their own desires. (…)When you make feeling good a priority, that magnificent frequency will radiate and touch everyone close to you.

Give more to yourself. Take time off to give to yourself, and in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.

“To acquire love . . . fill yourself up with it until you become a magnet.”

Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody. Therefore it is imperative that you tend to You first. Attend to your joy first. People are responsible for their own joy. When you tend to your joy and do what makes you feel good, you are a joy to be around and you are a shining example to every child and every person in your life.

The reason you have to love You is because it is impossible to feel good if you don’t love You. When you feel bad about yourself, you are blocking all the love and all the good that the Universe has for you.

You must change your focus and begin to think about all the things that are wonderful about You. Look for the positives in You.

Listening to this music, I sincerely hope that today you will love yourself better, and have a happy day 🙂

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See you soon.
Solip